So anyway, what do you guys think? When is the best age to have your first child? It's really bugging me. Ok, well not REALLY bugging me but I'm thinking about it alot. I don't forsee myself being in a position to have a child anytime soon (school, money, needing to get back a hot body and fete after these months of self deprevation) and I don't want to have a child until I can put that child first in my life in terms of priorities. Plus I have no man but I have a contingency plan worked out so if things get bad all I have to do is invest in some wine and red beans. But that is a long story.
Sometimes I wish I was a man so that this question would not be a problem. But then I'd have to wear boring flat shoes all the time and people kinda watch you funny when you shave your legs. So write me back and tel me personal experiences etc.